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The Bible Discussion Group

13. Discussion Problems

Most discussion problems can be solved by the use of questions. Using questions patiently and tactfully you can accomplish a lot! Here are some examples of common problems and solutions.

Dominators. These are people who talk too much. They might be too impatient to listen to others, trying to get attention or think they have all the answers. If you leave the problem unchecked it would rob other members of sharing time and eventually would result in boredom and frustration in the group.

Tell people the "three basic rules of good Bible discussion"; remind them often, especially when you have new people in the group. If someone's answers are too long deliberately look at your watch. Be tactful but firm; do not allow anybody to dominate the discussion. You can interrupt the "chronic talker" saying something like, " Thank you, brother (sister), now let's hear what others think about it."

Speak also to such people privately. Be kind to them, but say firmly that their answers are too long and robbing others of their time. Ask them to help you stimulate group discussion by giving others a chance to speak.

Non-participators. These are people who do not contribute to the discussion. They are too shy to speak publicly or not sure if they can say anything of value to others. Encourage them privately. Be sensitive with them; give them time to just observe others for a while. During discussions direct a few questions at them specifically. Ask them to comment on the answers of others. Affirm them; let them know they shared valuable things with the group.

If the conversation drifts away from the topic bring it back using questions like, "Can we discuss this some other time?" or "Do you think we should get back on the topic?"

If people get into arguments about interpretation if the Scripture (this is not common, but can happen) intervene asking them to hold it for a while, do more study at home and pray for the light of revelation to come. Get back to the discussion; ask other people to express their opinions.

Use questions to solve the discussion problems.

Three "don'ts" of leading the discussion	Be-attitudes of a leader
Don't answer questions yourself. Restate your questions, put them in different words, and give a hint in a the form of a question if necessary. Don't allow anybody to monopolize the conversation. Don't correct anybody on the spot. If someone interprets the Bible wrongly, ask others, "Do you think it's wrong? Do you agree with it?"	Be interested in people's answers. Listen carefully to what they have to say. Be patient, give people time to think. Be sensitive to people's feelings. Be positive; pursue the goals of discussion - application of the Word and encouragement.

1. What are the goals of the Bible discussion?

2. How would you handle a person whose answers are too long?

3. How can you involve people into discussion?

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